Writing with feeling

Hey All,
I'm relatively new to songwriting and wanted to know how some of you approach writing from the heart.
Sometimes I feel like I get trapped in my head with my writing and would like to experiment more with getting into some deeper feelings in my songs. Thanks for considering.
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I would say that all of my writing, articles, songs, lyrics, etc all come from my soul. I think that you can over think things.
If it feels right for you, then it's right x
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Ok. Thanks for the response. Sometimes I find feelings to be intimidating and foreign until they just drop in my lap. Haha.
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1/ I study hit lyrics and push more on the craft of commercial songs
2/ I study melody structures working in 2024
3/ I gather hooks and write them down
4/ I co write , no mans an island
5/ My problem is not writing songs , it's not writing is the problem
6/ I promote what I have to an audience ,without that you might as well not do music
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Thanks, Elvis! I appreciate your input on this.
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Hi Everyone.
Rob's asked a really interesting question and as a newbie like Rob, I find the comments already posted very interesting.
I find Elvis's comments to be the voice of experience and practicality, all points well worth noting.
Katie, on the other hand, focused on the emotional and spiritual aspect of influencing the listener, whether that be musical or lyrical. Again, a key element and one without relevant experience, I tend to lean into.
There is however, an interesting outlier which I will through in and stir the pot of debate.
Where does the solely commercial songwriter fit into the equation?
Their songs are primarily written with the objective of commercial success and any emotion is an injected ingredient rather than the fundamental driver of the subject or words used to elicit reactions in others.
N.B. These are solely my own views and are here to generate debate, not denigrate the work of such songwriters.
Sid
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Thanks, Syd. I do feel like this question is getting answered from a variety of angles. I'm sensing a truth starting to emerge:
It's through the work, ritual and honesty of one's process that the gems of catharsis emerge. Am I just making this up?
I love this discussion. I have much to learn about getting into the depths of my feelings and how they fit into my music.
I know it's a craft that some people make good money at. I just want to break through and feel it. Then write it.
Thanks again to all for the comments. Any other opinions? Emotional outbursts?
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I find on most songwriting sites the word (commercial) is almost like a dirty name .
What does the word mean ? It means relating to a wider audience .
Emotional outbursts are fine in a song , the business of songwriting should not be emotional outbursts.
You can waste your time bitching and complaining how the music industry is now
The better way to handle it is to grasp on what's happening and working in 2024
It will take a investment , like any business . Do you know how long your going to hear , "They don't make music like they used to " Till this world ends .
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Elvis, my apologies if I touched a raw nerve. If I can clarify my position re "commercial songwriting". Firstly, I am 100% in favour of commercial, popular, paid for songwriting. Without it music and songwriting would revert back to the patronage of the rich elite. I totally agree with everything you say in defence of the industry and I do not endorse any form of "elitist" view of songwriting.
My contribution to the debate was to introduce the contrast between songs written by writers based on their own, experiences, feelings, beliefs, emotions, etc and those were the songwriters write songs to satisfy a market demand. This is not a right or wrong distinction but rather one of value underpinning those "feelings".
An example: Did Dylan write his early protests songs because he believed in them or because they filled a demand?
Are xmas songs written because the writers genuinely want you to have a happy xmas or it's a good time to sell a lot of records?
Debates must always remain objective, even if the subject is about emotions!
Sid
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I don't know Bob , I'd say what he wrote was( relevant) of the times in 1963 or so , Its obvious he filled a BIG demand
You didn't hit a raw nerve , Its my opinion of 20 years studying with pro songwriters with a track record with hits on radio .
Writers write Xmas songs for the money of course , I'm talking on a pro level . That's their lively hood .
If your experiences, feelings, beliefs, emotions can relate to a wider audience ,then you've written a (commercial) song .
Let me add another observation , If your life is in shambles and your moving forward to improve it , you might not reach a wider audience . All subjective of course , like everything
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Again, thanks to all commenting on the thread. All opinions welcome. This is meant to hopefully encourage a variety of perspectives. Of course, some will have strong opinions and techniques based on years of experience. I'm thankful to ALL of you for your comments. Really trying to overcome some obstacles within me that can most likely only be overcome by writing a bunch and seeing what works. What's your process?
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What do you call a songwriter without a significant other?
Answer: Homeless
My process smoke 2 packs of cigs , get yelled at my wife , Which is why i seldom write love songs
Well keep a shrink on speed dial for trying moments , Though basically they don't know anything , What you expect from the shrink like Frued with a coke addiction worse then Motley Crew
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Hahaha! This is hilarious. Love your grit, Elvis. I'm with you. I appreciate your straight-forward honesty.
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Yes we will heal you of your mental problems , We figured it out with 50 pounds of coke, We even have a degree , Drug dealers on speed dial .
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When did that dream go array on being one of them guys ?
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I think it depends on why you're writing (as has already been alluded to).
If you're trying to earn a living at songwriting, or be commercially successful, then you aren't writing for yourself. You are either writing songs for an artist, or you are writing songs for an audience. And what you write will be what gives you the greatest chance of success. In those cases I think you are trying to read the market and deliver something akin to what is already successful. Find an emotional song, and deconstruct it.
For some, songwriting is almost like therapy. People write to express themselves, to let things out, and to deal with issues. In these cases, deep emotions often come through very naturally. But whether other people can connect to those experiences is less certain. However just the creative act of putting things on paper can be rewarding.
For others, songwriting is more of a creative hobby. You can try out all kinds of variations of style, format and emotional depth. I would put myself into this category. In trying to write from the heart, I would focus on something very specific in my life, not to recount that event, but to try to draw something from it, a perspective, an angle, a phrase, something to be a kernel for a song to grow around. I don't particularly want to bare my soul to the world, but I do want to ground a song in something that feels real and emotionally honest.
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Thanks, RDM, this gives me a lot to consider. I think I'd be happy writing something that felt grounded in my feelings and honest.
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